1. 他们的腿说明了很多
当一个男生把他的腿绕在椅子脚上,这暗示了他有目地性的把什么东西给掩藏起来了——比如说事情的真相。
2. 他们会给你一个停顿
问一个简单的,直接的问题——像是,“昨天晚上你去哪了?”,或是“你有没有劈腿?” 如果在他回答之前,他给了你一个长长的停顿,或者说他重复了一遍你所说的,那就有问题了。
3. 他们的手指背叛了他们的不自在感受
如果他站着的时候把双手完全的插进口袋——换句话说,他的手指被完全的藏起来了——他感到很紧张。这完全随你去理会不理会他这么做的理由。
4. 他们不能颠倒顺序地撒谎
如果一个人讲的故事让你起疑心的话,尝试着问他一些问题,迫使让他用不同地顺序把故事再重新整理一遍。一般来说,如果一个人撒谎地话,他顶多只能把故事按照1,2,3,4顺序排列起来,而让他4,3,2,1地讲一遍的话几乎不可能。
5. 他们在奇怪的地方耸肩
如果他说了很肯定的什么,例如说“昨晚我和我的好兄弟在一起!” 同时他耸了一下肩。你要注意了!那个瞬间暗示着他潜意识里面对他自己所讲的保持中立态度。
6. 如果他们有个武断的开头
请注意他的开头,类似:“我知道这个听上去很奇怪,但是……” 或者“你应该不会相信这个,但是……” 十有八九,接下去的是谎话。
7. Their Tongues Don’t Lie
If you ask someone a question and he momentarily flicks out his tongue or licks his lips before answering, he believes he’s about to get away with something.
8. They’ll Hold Your Gaze
Sometimes a liar is so intent on proving his sincerity he’ll stare into your eyes for an uncomfortably long time, trying to prove to you that he has nothing to hide.
9. They Can’t Adapt
Just as a liar is unable to reverse the order of events in a falsehood, he also has trouble adjusting when one component is disproven. So if you’re able to irrefutably call him out on one facet of a lie and he still refuses to change his story, you can be pretty sure that the rest is B.S. too.
10. They’ll Give You a Hand
A liar doesn’t want you to examine what he says too closely. And so he’ll often unconsciously bring a hand to his face — to scratch a nose, or rub an eye, or stroke a chin — in an attempt to “block” the words as they’re coming out of his mouth
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